Parenting in the Launch Years
EP. 04
Parenting doesn’t end—it transforms.
Most parenting advice ends at high school graduation, but the launch years? That’s when the real shift begins. In this heartfelt episode, Justin and Sarah Ahrens reflect on celebrating their son’s college graduation and dive into the complex, often unspoken world of parenting adult children.
From learning to mentor instead of manage, to navigating the return of grown kids to the family home, they share honest stories about what it means to let go without losing connection. They explore how their business and leadership experiences have shaped their parenting, what they've had to unlearn, and how they're still evolving alongside their four kids.
Whether you’re in the thick of transition, bracing for an empty nest, or figuring out how to stay close without crowding your kids, this episode offers practical insights, real laughter, and a reminder that it’s okay not to have it all figured out.
Takeaways:
How to parent adult kids with presence, not pressure
When to step back—and when to lovingly step in
Why leadership traits like adaptability and vulnerability matter in parenting
What legacy really means when your kids are grown
The joy (and chaos) of welcoming adult children back home
Things We’re Learning (and Unlearning):
74% of adult children want emotional support, not advice.
Respecting autonomy builds stronger long-term relationships.
The brain doesn’t fully develop until around 25 — so yes, that explains a lot.😉
👉 Here’s a great article on brain development if you're curious.
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